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Find Your Place
The personal location decision system. 86 pages, answering one question: Where fits my life?
There is a particular kind of tiredness that comes from researching places to live. It does not feel like laziness. It feels like diligence. Another comparison table, another thread from someone who moved to Valencia in 2019, another cost calculator that disagrees with the last one. Months pass and the list of candidate countries has grown rather than shrunk.
The problem is almost never a shortage of information. It is that nothing you find tells you how to weigh it against your own life — the work you do, the money you can sustain, the parts of an ordinary Tuesday you refuse to make harder. Without that, more research just produces more options.
Find Your Place is built to end that loop. Not by promising certainty, but by producing a decision you can actually explain: one leading destination, one backup, the reason the leader wins, the compromise you are knowingly accepting, and the single fact most likely to change your mind.
Where you are
Saved posts, open tabs, conflicting opinions, and a favourite place you are quietly afraid to choose for the wrong reason.
Where it leaves you
One primary choice. One backup. A clear reason. A known compromise. A verification list. One next test.
How the workbook moves
Define — you describe the ordinary life you are trying to build before you name a single country. Work, groceries, movement, evenings, energy. Not landmarks.
Filter — hard gates remove places that are impossible regardless of how attractive they look, and a sustainable monthly number does the rest of the cutting.
Compare — the Decision Calculator rates the same handful of criteria across every finalist, weighting them through a point key rather than invented percentages.
Test — the leader is stress-tested against the Tuesday Test, the Honeymoon Filter, and one realistic experiment you can run before committing anything expensive.
Pages from inside
Nothing here is decorative. Every page exists to move one decision forward or to stop you working on the wrong thing.
Where you start depends on where you are
The workbook opens with four routes. You take one, and it tells you plainly what to skip.
I am wide open
Start with the 15-Minute First Win, define your life, apply hard gates, and reduce the world to three serious options.
I have two or three finalists
Skip ideation. Life Brief, hard gates, evidence check, Decision Calculator, then a reality test.
I have a favourite but keep doubting it
Stop adding destinations. Challenge the favourite and verify the facts that could make it lose.
We are deciding together
Each person writes their true needs privately first, then you compare the real conflicts. No averaging away a non-negotiable.
What it is not
It does not organise packing, cancellations, departure deadlines or the relocation budget. That is the next problem.
It is not tax, visa, immigration, medical, legal or financial advice. It tells you which questions must be answered before a decision is ready.
It will not hand you a ranked list of the world's best countries. The ranking depends on your life, and only you hold that input.
Questions
What format is it?
An 86-page PDF workbook, designed to be filled in on screen or printed. Fixed A4 layout, no software required.
Do I have to complete all 86 pages?
No, and the workbook actively tells you not to. The Core Path is the spine; the Optional Toolkit exists only for when a deeper answer is needed. There is an explicit stop rule.
Is this useful if I already know where I am going?
Less so. If your destination is chosen, The Move-Ready Reset is the better starting point.
$29
86-page PDF workbook. Instant download, yours to keep and print.
The Complete Blueprint
All three workbooks — $89
This one plus The Move-Ready Reset and Land Well — the whole arc from deciding where to go to a week that finally runs on its own. Saves $28 against buying them separately.
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